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The science of dead celebrities

Posted: Monday, July 06, 2009 9:52 PM by Alan Boyle


Eric Thayer / Reuters
Michael Jackson fan Leandro Lapagesse of Brazil clutches a handful of
memorabilia outside the Forest Lawn Mortuary in Los Angeles on Monday.

Why do celebrities such as pop star Michael Jackson exert such a pull, especially when they’ve just passed away?

For decades, psychologists have been studying the one-way relationships we create with celebrities. Some researchers say such connections are merely a fact of life in a media-saturated age. Others suggest that celebrating dead celebrities offers a way to come to terms with our own mortality - and reach for a kind of immortality as well.

The public fascination with Jackson is certainly beyond dispute: When word of his death circulated on June 25, it almost broke the Internet. Hundreds of thousands of mourners are expected to converge on downtown Los Angeles for Tuesday's memorial service. Sales of music and memorabilia have spiked so high that some speculate Jackson is worth more dead than alive.

Even Gayle Stever, a psychology professor at Empire State College who studied the Michael Jackson fan phenomenon 20 years ago, is amazed at the response she's been seeing on her Facebook page. "Fans that I haven't heard from in 15 years are finding me on there," she told me.

Jackson's fans sparked Stever's first research project, and since then she's been studying the relationships that fans have forged with celebrities ranging from singer Josh Groban to the stars of the "Star Trek" and "Lord of the Rings" on-screen sagas. The way Stever sees it, such ties, known in the trade as "parasocial relationships," can be just as real as your ties with family and friends.

"We are biologically programmed to be attracted to human faces and human voices," she said. "In the last 100 years we've been able to 'know' people through media that normally we wouldn't know ... and I think our human brains don't always know the difference."

That means the grief felt by Michael Jackson's fans can be as deep as the grief one feels over the death of a family member. "The key to why people are affected by the death is to ask why we are affected by any death. I don't think it's any different, whether it's a parasocial attachment or a person we saw in real life," Stever said.

Stever said the intensity of that feeling doesn't necessarily depend on how big the star is. As an example, she points to Craig Parker. Craig who? He's the guy who played one of Orlando Bloom's elven pals in the "Lord of the Rings" movies.

"That actor has a fan base of devoted, die-hard, attached fans, and the attachment to someone like that, who you've never heard of, is just as intense, just as personal, just as important as the attachment to a Michael Jackson, or my current study, who happens to be Josh Groban," Stever said. "The magnitude of the star doesn't correlate to the intensity of the attachment."

Celebrity action at a distance
Is that a bad thing? Not necessarily. In a series of studies published last year in the journal Personal Relationships, the University of Buffalo's Jaye Derrick and her colleagues found that some college students viewed their favorite celebrities as being more similar to the way they saw themselves, while others saw celebrities as being more similar to the way they'd like to be. The first group tended to have high self-esteem; the second group was judged to have low self-esteem.

"Basically, we found that with low self-esteem people, these celebrities embodied their ideal selves," Derrick told me. "High self-esteem people saw them more like their actual selves."

One of the more interesting outcomes was that once the low self-esteem subjects reflected on their favorite celebrities, they tended to rate their own self-image higher. In fact, thinking about celebrities was more of a mood-brightener than thinking about their own partners - which led the researchers to conclude that "parasocial relationships can have self-enhancing benefits for low self-esteem people that they do not receive in real relationships." (They hastened to emphasize, however, that celebrities can't replace real friends.)

In a follow-up study published in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, Derrick and her colleagues found that merely watching television can give some people a sense that their social needs are being met.

A kind of immortality?
Psychology professor Chi-Yue Chiu and Pelin Kesebir of the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign found even deeper meaning in a series of studies presented last year at the annual meeting of the Society for Personality and Social Psychology. They found that our feelings about the legacy left behind by celebrities could be affected by reflection upon our own mortality.

In an e-mail from Istanbul, Kesebir explained the point behind the research:

"Famous people, at their best, are sacred heroes who reflect what we hold to be the best of our culture and society. As such heroes they are considered less mortal than ordinary humans, both symbolically and literally. My research shows that this perception of cultural heroes as imperishable serves to alleviate death anxiety.

"After being reminded of their mortality, for example, people think that famous people will be remembered for a longer time in the future, attesting to people's desire to see these celebrities as symbolically immortal. And the more celebrities represent cultural values, the more is the desire to see them as everlasting.

"In research I conducted two years ago, I had participants answer the hypothetical question of how long Michael Jackson (among other celebrities) will be remembered after he dies, after making them write either about their mortality or some other control topic. Participants reminded of their mortality on average thought that he'll be remembered for 104 years, whereas participants in the control group thought that he'll be remembered for only 60.71 years.

"That study revealed that to the extent that famous people represent cultural values, they are perceived to be symbolically immortal, and this perception intensifies after reminders of mortality. In another study, I showed that people think that if they board the same plane as a famous person, the plane is less likely to crash, to the extent that the famous person on board represents cultural values.

"As also suggested by the expression 'celebrity worship,' parallels between religion and the veneration shown to certain celebrities are plentiful. Iconic stars like Michael Jackson occupy the status of a demi-god, if not a god, in the eyes of their fans (incidentally, a word that has religious origins) and thereby provide meaning and existential stamina to them the way religions provide to their believers. Michael Jackson's death will therefore be very hard on his die-hard fans.

"They will experience the shock of seeing the annihilation of something they inwardly deemed to be imperishable (just like a god). In a way, they have lost one of their bulwarks against existential anxiety, and they are in a vulnerable state now. With time, though, they will come to accept his literal death and derive a similar sense of stamina from his symbolic immortality."

What do celebrity fans seek?
Some might say Kesebir is taking her conclusions too far. It's unlikely that any of Michael Jackson's fans ever seriously regarded him as a literal god (although there's already a not-completely-serious effort to deify him). And Stever pointed out that hard-core, borderline pathological fans make up a small proportion of the typical celebrity fan base (although some studies suggest that a larger number of people engage in milder forms of celebrity worship).

"Fan bases are made up of just as diverse a group of people as any other group," Stever said. You can find zealots in any population sample of significant size, whether you're talking about a celebrity fan club or the local fraternal lodge, she said.

Stever said that, in her experience, most fan clubs are all about "appreciating true talent, and seeing the fan base as an opportunity for social networking." So when thousands of people show up at the Staples Center, or go online to share their feelings about the King of Pop, the experience might be as much about connecting with a community of like-minded fans as it is about immortalizing the silenced celebrity. That funerary tradition is as old as any mythology.

What do you think? Is the mourning of Michael Jackson a throwback to ancient religious rites, a media-generated spectacle or a healthy catharsis for millions of fans? Feel free to leave your comments below.


Derrick's co-authors for the self-esteem study, "Parasocial Relationships and Self-Discrepancies: Faux Relationships Have Benefits for Low Self-Esteem Individuals," include Shira Gabriel of the University of Buffalo and Brooke Tippin of Detroit. Her co-authors for the television study, "Social Surrogacy: How Favored Television Programs Provide the Experience of Belonging," include Gabriel and Kurt Hugenberg of Miami University.

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What saddens me is the fact that most people want to believe something distorted or wrong about a person who has achieved a lot in life, especially if they themselves have never achieved much in life. True at various times we may pay too much attention to stars and the like, but human nature is to love and have fun, as a result you seek to be entertained and in various ways. You pay for entertainment in most venues. Michael Jackson was a top, if not the top entertainer of all time! That being the case in a free democratic society, he earned millions. Just like most people would like and love to do at some point in their lives. However, most of us do not possess the raw natural talent that commands the attention that Michael Jackson evokes when he picks up the mic and cuts a smooth groove move! People pay for that level of entertainment and do it on a regular basis. Whether they are going to a sporting event or a concert! Further, all of those who have bad and sad things to say about Mr. Jackson, I'm sure do not have any talent at all and if so, not the kind that will garnish any notice from anyone but themselves. As for the pedophile statements from those individuals who think they know what had gone on with his accusers, please try and pay attention to the facts! The children came forward to say, now as adults, that their parents put them up to it, all for money! I notice that none of you are calling for the prosecution of those individuals. I wonder why not!?

The sad thing about our nation in respect to this and other people and events of note, is that most people are not intelligent enough to distinguish fact from fiction. As said by the late and great Norman Mailer;
Fifty one percent of the American people are stupid. Mr. Jackson is and always will be an ICON of historic proportions!

Rest in peace Michael, my brother, we will always love you and everything that you have done for us all!
MICHEAL JACKSON WAS THE GREATEST ENTERTAINER OF ALL TIMES. Funny how people think the media is over doing his death, but this is the same media that attempted to crucify him in life. NO ONE knows this mans life or his life experiences better than himself and GOD. Which is the ONLY one who can judge Michael or anyone else who has an opinion about him. It's also funny that all of you UNINTERESTED folk want to comment, yet keeping the very thing you want to die ALIVE! We love you Michael, may you rest in peace!!!
Idols are absurd in any way, shape, or form.  MJ was a superb entertainer, perhaps the best ever.  It saddens me that he's gone, because his presence in this world was a constant in my life.  He was a part of my life.  Also, and on the other hand, however flawed and bizarre he might have been, he was a human being, a fragile human being forced to stand on a pedestal.  I am disgusted with all those who mocked him and hated him, and the media in particular for making a vile and shameless circus out of his problems, out of many "celebrities'" problems.  Paparazzi should be illegal, and gossip magazines who scream slander should be erradicated.  MJ was a man, a misunderstood and troubled man, like many of us.  May he be at peace and have found true love and comfort in the arms of god.
it is not god nor a saint. michael jackson have something in him, unique than anybody else. michael lives on unless someone better than mj comes up in the future. but michael is now immortal for that is the way we feel about him.
thanks michael
People are upset over the lack of coverage for Farrah Fawcett and Ed McMahon. Farrah had received her last rites that morning thus most of us were expecting her to pass before noon. The last image I saw of Ed McMahon made me think that his days were numbered; No one saw the death of Michael Jackson coming. That is why you have the outpouring of coverage. This happens all the time. Mother Teresa died on September 5th but it was overshadowed by the death of Princess Diana (who had died six days before). Sammy Davis and Jim Henson died on the same day but Henson got most of the attention because no one saw it coming -- Sammy had been diagnosed with cancer and we knew that his time was limited. John Ritter and Johnny Cash died one day apart. When the younger celebrities die, it not only shocks us but it also makes us more aware of our own mortality.
Ditto to comments from Bell, La. And let me add:
Many years ago when Michael was still with the Jackson 5, a girl wrote a letter to a popular soul magazine at the time about the downside of his superstar status. Although I was only about 10 or so, I remember the letter, because the sentiment was profound yet simple enough to understand and it is  so appropriate now. She described how even though Michael was rich, there were many things that he could not buy. For instance, she described how her little brother could go to McDonald's with a group of his friends, but Michael could not. The same with a movie theater. Her brother could join his neighborhood Little League team, yet Michael could not.  Finally, he could go to an amusement park all day with his friends, yet Michael could not.  She closed with lines from the song, "Express Yourself": "Some people have everything and some people don't. But everything isn't anything if you don't have what you wan't." Peace and a sense of contentment, so necessary for every human being to feel whole...eluded the Manchild who had "everything." May he finally be at peace.
Perhaps the fan equates the fragile mortality they themselves experience and fear; claiming a person considered by them as immortal. If death claims the celebrity, beleived to be 'above' natures laws and in the eyes of the fan; the celebrity is 'immortal'. By claiming a celebrity, death becomes the common experience to be experienced by celebrity and non-celebrity alike. Death becomes the 'equalizer', rendering the celebrity equally as mortal as the fan. Death becomes the 'commonizer' between fan and celebrity, and the pedestal where the celebrity once existed for the fan is suddenly removed. The celebrity, formally regarded as 'imortal' by the fan suddenly becomes the fan's equal; and whose life was once considered 'God-like' is suddenly reduced to the 'common-man' status.  
Our society is based on living off of glamour and celebrities and what they do in their personal life,I know losing someone is hard but that is apart life. I'm just tired of seeing the media bending over backwards for celebrity life than fallen soldiers,or the hard working and poor Americans who struggle in the recession.
I personally grew up with Michael Jackson and did share my love of his music with my son.  He has continued that with his own love of music...this was a beautiful tribute to a very very talented person. Being talented and using that talent to help others is to be respected.  However, to "salute" him as the US Congresswoman Lee of Texas did is totally out of touch with the "real" world.  Save it for our troops, the true givers in our world.  They give their lives, hence a salute.  Shame on her!!!
"Tomorrow and tomorrow and tomorrow
creeps in its petty pace from day to day
to the last syllable of recorded time.

And all our yesterdays have lighted fools
the way to dusty death.

Out, out brief candle!
Life is but a walking shadow,
a poor player who struts and frets his hour upon the stage
and then is heard no more.

It is a tale told by an idiot, full of sound and fury,
signifying nothing."

Shakespeare, MacBeth, Act 5, final scene
Yes I too was offended as well by the "salute". She had no business doing that. Michael Jackson although a great performer led a life that HE chose, let me repeat that, HE chose. The person who said the Judge caused him pain is wrong, Michael caused his own pain by his own lifestyle, 50 year old men do NOT sleep with young boys. They spent 3 hours immortalizing him as if he were a "god" and if that helps them fine but he was no hero in my book. My heroes are the one's who wear the uniform that lay down their lives everyday to keep us free, let's see them do a 3 hour tribute to them!
From a wonderful country song, "Its not what you take when you leave this world behind you, its what you leave behind you when you are gone".

Michael Joe Jackson, left behind good deeds that will last a life time for many.

Let's not idolize him, but admire, appreciate and remember the humanity of his being and the joy and talent that he shared with us.

I'm looking to the man in the mirror, Im asking him to change his ways..... If you want to make the world a better place take a look at yourself and make the change".

What have we as individuals done lately to do that?

He was not a god. He was a man. I thank God for the man he endowed with gifts and talents, that knew exactly what to do with them, SHARE, GIVE, LOVE, and yes he did.

May God Bless you Michael. We will miss you.
Our "own" contrived, artificially influenced, ideals of what is real or truth are woefully inadequate and lead to death. In a cloud of deception millions live daily, and will die for that same lie. I.E. "The science of dead celebrities". There is no science at all. Every human must be separated from the vehicle used to transport us through the realm of time. After separation has taken place the true being is immediately entered into the realm of eternity. Now and I mean right now, Micheal is not dead at all. Let me be clear...I don't mean his spirit is with us...I just told you where his spirit, and the spirit of every human that has ever left the realm of time is. Micheal is in eternity, and in eternity there are no "celebrities" or "common-folk". There are two classes of human in eternity and well as time for that matter, believers and unbelievers. Believers of the truth or unbelievers of the truth. Those who are believers go to the truth, those who are not go to the lie. It is best written in the gospel..For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life. For God didn't send his Son into the world to judge the world, but that the world should be saved through him. He who believes in him is not judged. He who doesn't believe has been judged already, because he has not believed in the name of the one and only Son of God. This is the judgment, that the light has come into the world, and men loved the darkness rather than the light; for their works were evil.
Today the broadcast networks, cable 'news' stations and few other misc. cable stations all broadcast the Jackson memorial service. Why? While Mr. Jackson was a talented singer and a gifted dancer, his best days were 20 years ago. His personal issues are being largely ignored, and must be taken into account when deciding to give this much air time to one person. 8 hours would have been fine and fitting. But over a week? Come on now.
I know that TV media has changed over the last 29 years. Even allowing for the changes I do not remember John Lennon, George Harrison,or Jerry Garcia getting anywhere this type of coverage or hype. Will the media give the same air time when Paul McCartney, Ringo, or Keith Richards and Mick Jagger pass away? I doubt it. The contribution of these musicians far outweigh anything that Mr. Jackson contributed to popular culture.

I am afraid that we have turned in to a nation/world of short-attention-span theater, intellectually dumbed down, politically passive celebrity worshipers. What a shame.
Many people on here say (metaphorically) "I grew up with Michael Jackson."  Well...I (literally) grew up with him, as my dad knew Joe Jackson and used to take me to the Jackson home in Tarzana, and while he and Joe talked, drank, played cards, or whatever they did...I was sent out to the driveway to shoot hoops with Michael, Tito, and the rest of the "Five".  One day, when the very short-lived play session was abruptly ended by Joe sternly ordering the boys to get back inside and "go to work" (meaning get back to practicing their act), my dad commented to Joe that maybe he needed to lighten up a bit and let them have more fun....to which Joe replied, "I am NEVER going back to Gary, Indiana."  Enough said.  I estimate that was around 1970, and I think it was the last time I ever saw Michael.
We used to celebrate our warriors, and perhaps by extension war itself.

Now we celebrate our minstrels, those who make us smile.

Maybe this is not a bad thing after all.

JP  
A lot of it is the media. Michael Jackson is a "story," and a money-making headline. It might sound bad, but while the editors of gossip tabloids maybe felt sad about his death, they also knew it was big money for them as they put out their M.J. Memorial issues on newstands. And the media is sooooo gossip-hungry anyways... they just eat this stuff up. It's like fuel to a fire. I've been somewhat intrigued by Jackson's life (mostly because it seemed very sad), but astonished by the amount of media coverage his death has received!!  Every night, there is some sort of M.J. special and it's just the same things over and over and over. The media reminds me of a bunch of obsessive teen-agers!  I have never understood frenzied fans to begin with. I have never gone crazy like that over any celebrity.  And I've never understood the obsession some people have with celebs. People idealize celebs, and seriously, I think they "worship" them and envy their lives (fame, wealth, beauty, etc), even though many celebs have very real and sad struggles (divorce, loneliness, addictions, etc). I also think it's sad and wrong to elevate M.J. above other people. His death is no less and no more sad than anyone else's death. There are good people who die every day who don't get the recognition M.J. has received, but it doesn't matter. They were loved by others and they lived and loved, and their deaths are just as sad as M.J.'s, and I'm sure moreso for their loved ones. It'll be interesting to see what happens in a week or so. I guarantee that this has been in big part about money and ratings for media, and they will move on to their next big story eventually, but right now there are not a lot of big stories, so they have really hyped this one alot. It's sad that M.J. has died. I mostly feel sad for his kids. But the obsession of media and his fans has been disturbing and strange.
Michael was an entertainer, nothing more. Entertainers are a dime a dozen. He was a man that lived his life in excess. Neverland. Clothing. Recluse. Hiding his and his kids faces. Speaking of faces, his was manipulated in excess, to the point his nose fell off. Do I believe he engaged in sex with minors... yes. Cash can manipulate any jury. His music? It was cute. Nothing worthy of superstar status. It was pop crap. Is that genius? I think not. He danced well, but that doesn't warrant genius status. Jackson 5 songs... they were 'cute'. But deep? Pl-ease. I do feel sorry for the dude, don't get me wrong. But he was mal-adjusted. Mental issues. I remember the battle of the pop bands... the Jacksons vs. the Osmond’s. The music was all crap. Catchy tunes, OK. Equating his talent to such bands like Pink Floyd, Emerson Lake and Palmer, Yes, The Beatles... the list goes on and on. I mourned John Lennon. He... he was by all means talented. Michael Jackson, well, his talent was... crap. Catchy tunes, sure. Nothing beyond that. It's amazing how swiftly the world forgets his sick pedophile 'izm'. Do I think he engaged in pedophile acts? Yes, I do. How many people invite kids to share their beds. Did he partake in chemically altered states? Of course he did. I don't want to disrespect the deceased, but the facts are the facts. I can't believe the world has turned a blind eye. Just a short while ago his ass was in court with that molestation case. Why did he get off? Money talks. If the same thing happened to a 'regular citizen', they'd be in jail. I just can’t help it. How quickly we forget and forgive. He's done so many f-upped things with himself. Hanging his kid out the window. Marrying how many women and rapidly divorcing them. And what about those facial mutilations. His nose was cut a hundred times. He whitened his skin. Dumped the afro. Squared the chin. I mean... WTF. I don't know exactly what he did with his skin. But whatever it was, it was a sign of a psychiatric patient. His hi-strung voice. What was up with that. Michael Jackson was a deeply disturbed individual. The only songs I enjoyed from him were when he was in the Jackson 5. I think he croaked from the stress he suffered trying to be something he wasn't. How people are so sad over him I can't understand. He was a person. A disturbed person, but none the less a person. Not an angel, not a demon. His talent, it was average. What, because he could dance? Please. The songs he wrote? The lyrics? Absolute pop music. If you're into that kind of mindless crap, then so be it. But, the fact remains, pop music is absolutely talentless. I mean, how much skill goes into writing a song Ben (a song about rats), or Thriller. My 11 year old son writes better tunes than that. All the media hype is unwarranted. A few mentions on the news would be more than sufficient. Farah Fawcett deserves equal attention. It's so ironic, when George Harrison passed, there was practically no media coverage. And John Bonham. Same difference. A totally skilled performer, Mel Blank? I can't remember an iota mentioned about him. Pop music is not deserving of idol worship. I can't stand this crap. A little news coverage would be perfectly sufficient. Here today, gone tomorrow. This world really needs to get its priorities squared away. This man deserves an honorable mention. Nothing else. His talent was OK, nothing else. The whole damn thing makes my stomach churn.
He's in the ground.Everybody give it a rest,for Pete's sake.Enough!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I thought the whole day was almost circuslike instead of a memorial service.  If the family wanted to share the event with the public, they might have televised it.  People could have stayed home & watched it on TV.  Lord knows there were plenty of networks willing to air it.
I seriously doubt the majorty having posted here are old enough to remember "Father Devine" a Negro preacher who insisted his being next to G_d in importancies.  For nearly twenty years after Father Devine's natural death, his window sold multi thousands of blessed hangerchief at the price of $5.00+ each and having been sent direct to her from Father Devine in heaven. No doubt there will be those hearing from Mr. Jackson, but I hope its not another of those blessed hankerchiefs sales from heaven. However, may he be respectfully remembered and to rest in peace.
It is obvious to me that MJ gave his life to entertaining. God blessed him with great talent and  he gave it back to the world.  Millions of people love him, literally. Unfortunately the entertainment business is an evil business.  You have to be strong-willed and really close to God to even survive as an adult let alone a child. There are temptations that are going to be around the STAR constantly. If MJ had the fantasy, immaturity, emotional, and physical problems the media is hounding about now its no wonder he is gone.  
The media and entertainment field with chew a person up and spit them out whether or not you are as successful at it as MJ was. I'm sure he expected the people close to him to look out for his best interest and treat him as if they loved him but money hungry people will do whatever it takes to get ahead be it by backstabbing or betrayal. They will even enable a person sometimes knowing all to well that what they are enabling the person with could maim or even kill them.  
MJ can now rest in peace. He does not have to worry anymore about who is real or fake.  Who loves him and who doesn't.  Because only God can give a man, woman or child the love they deserve.
I grew up with the Jackson Five & Temptations.  I remember my Aunt taking my Cousin and I to Richmond Va, to see the Jackson Five.  I was in love with Michael Jackson like every young girl my age at that time.  Also, I was nuts about Dennis Edwards of the Temptations and I use to switch sometimes and like Eddie Kendricks and Paul Winfield.

Well Eddie Kendricks died, I felt bad, Paul Winfield died, I felt bad, when Minnie Riperton died, I really felt bad.  However, When my Mother and Father died, I felt like almost dying.  Grace is Amazing, because if it wasn't for the grace, love and mercy of GOD, I don't know how I would have made it through that grief and pain.

I was absolutely nuts about Michael Jackson when I was a kid and the Jackson Five, I use to get in fights because my other playmates would say Michael Jackson was their boyfriend.  So we would get in kiddy cat fights to see who would win. I won, I had 6 brothers, I knew how to fight.

I watched Michael Jackson grow as I grew.  I'd sit down and listen to his albums because I loved certain songs He created.  Along with Earth, Wind and Fire, The Ohio Players, Kool and the Gang, Chick Corea, Billy Cobham, Minnie Riperton, Stevie, Smokey, Elton John, Billy Joel, Queen, Angela Bofill, Flora Purim, Randy Crawford, Dee Dee Bridgewater and I could go on and on.

Then I would go into my Parents Album stash, and listen to Dinah Washington, Lou Rawls, Barbra Streisand, Dionne Warwick when she was working with Burt Bacharach and Hal David, Count Basie, Gloria Lynn, Vicky Carr, anyone remember her, Fantastic voice, The Duke of course, Nat King Cole, Chick Webb, Ella, Sarah, Billie Holiday, Bird, Thelonius Monk, John Coltrane, Aretha Franklin, Miles Davis, Tommy Dorsey, Frank Sinatra, Engelbert Humperdink, Tom Jones, Tony Bennet, Mahailia, James Cleavland, and I can go on and on....

I am naming all incredible Artists in their own right.  I like to call them Artists because that is what they are to me.  I enjoy their musical creations because it inspires me.  I enjoy their voices and the stories told through song.  Some who I've named have passed on and some still living and I listen to all of them still, the same way I listened when I was a child.

I've read the stories of their lives, some lived longer and some died young, and the ones still living are going strong well into their sixties, seventies and eighties.  No one can decide their destiny when it is time to die.  

However, one can decide how they want to live and I believe it does have a bearing on ones longevity.  The choices we make have consequences either good or bad it depends on the road we choose to take.

Michael Jackson was an incredible talent.  He was a sweet child with an aching soul caught in a harsh cruel world where it seems He could not repel without using drugs as a vice to maybe numb the pain a bit.  Michael Jackson's final death was on June 25th, however, He was long gone before that.   Drugs are the Devil.  They will take your light and kill your soul.   It's the choices we make on how we want to live.

No one knows the struggle of "Celebrity" unless we walk in those shoes.  It all looks and appears great on the outside looking in; however, we don't know what kind of Dark World the Entertainment Industry perpetuates to drive a sweet child with a giving heart from Indiana to turn to the destruction of Drugs.

The memorial service today was very nice.  It's evident the affect Michael Jackson had on the people all over.  However, we must remember all things.  I never was concerned about all the allegations, I felt it was a lynch mob, Santa Barbara County?  Come on let's get real.   Michael was doing too good and having too much success, money and power.  It was a conspiracy to bring Him down. In this excessive drug use that finally claimed his life, it's sad to see great talented artists go out like this.  

I am glad the media covered this and I hope all especially young people can learn even at Michael Jackson's memorial, He's still giving and letting all people know that Drugs are not the way.

I pray that God will take care of his family in this time of grief and pain like He took care of me.
Not a MJ fan but I will make one quick observation.  Millions of fans will get up every Sun., or millions of fans three times a day will bow their bodies or heads and worship guys that's been dead over 2000 yrs. It sure does wanna make you sing,"Stop the world I want to get off."
I personally think stars and media persons become idols to a vast majority of the people because they live a life style that most would like to have-so it is envy, and way they live their lives that attract attention. In a way, they are hunted for stories which sell all for money-it is sad in a way that a famous person who may be a wonderful singer, dancer, and recording artist can not find even a small bit of privacy-I personally sympathize with the Jackson Family because he did die to young--but he was human and a father and because of the fans, media everything he did was overblown-I can think of several persons who have died who had some of the same problems with the constant peering into their private lives. I personally think that this media circus is a sad statement of our culture and value system. There are many honorable, talented persons in the world without the media's knowledge of them and they can go have a picnic with their kids etc without camera and news people discussing what they ate at their picnic. Michael Jackson was a human and not God-somehow the media circus has tried to make him one.
The attention of the media and the public to his passing is just over the top. WHO CARES? Thank God TCM plays movies so I can watch something on TV. Even MSNBC and CNBC are full of this nonsense. I don't want to know about his life, his death, or his farewell services. Stop already!
When I read the article "Fooled by Faces" it called to mind an incident I had when I was 16 and a waiter in a local restaurant. A couple came in and the man was SO familiar to me (I could picture myself as a child perched on his friendly knee), that I asked him if he knew me or recognized me as I was sure he must be a long lost uncle, or some other elusive family friend.  When my name, etc., didn't ring a bell to him, his wife finally leaned forward and urged him to clarify the situation and it turned out the man was Ernie Coombs, better known as "Mr. Dressup". It was a big ahah! moment and a shock to think that I felt so close to this man whom I'd never met!
Everyone needs a god, not everyone realizes that they need a god, nor does everyone realize that the One True God is the God of all things, The God of Yeshua our saviour.  One of His commandments was 'thou shalt not make for thyself and idol to worship'  The tie or connection some people seem to have to celebrities is that they Idolize them, most of the time without even realizing it.
It is sad to see Micheal had to die the way he did, he wanted to make his last performance and call it quit ;but all that change in the twink of an eye.One may say the Lord give and the Lord takest away ;but The Lord do not make mistakes, he sure did not take Michael away man did this to him. He wanted to live despite all that was said about him, he wanted to live more than anyone can believe. Just remember he had three beautiful children and love them with his heart. He was rob of his childhood and wanted to be there for his children, to make a difference he keep them away from the public eyes . People will always find ways to discredit others it doesn't matter how hard one tries they will never do enough , if you give your heart they will ask for you eye or another part of your body and that what many people knows. we human begin never satified it doesn't matter what anyone says, he was a human begin with feeling and all the good he has done he will be remember for his beautiful smile and amazing dance and that gift that God has given to him . He has not been able to tell us every thing but he was suffering and the last few years really hurt him the love for children cast him. His dignity, it almost destroy him ;but he was going to make a come back he was hurt.  Who has not been hurt and been accuse of things that is not true let me say this  even Jesus who did not sin and was accuse of wrong doing so Michael is just another one if only he had people to pray for him throughout his trial it would of make a different; but who is to say if there wasn't people praying after what was said he had great friends and loving ones to. People cared for him mean while he had lots of enemies; but again he was going to put it all behind him. Joseph was thrown into a pit for his coat, put in prison because he refuse to sleep with potiphar's wife . Michael knew what he wanted ;but not many understood him so sad I feel for his children. May God protect them and those whome he intrust them with  I pray that the family will soon put it all behind them to , the judge who wanted to pull him down he should have his consence check if he has any, also the father of the son who accused him of wrong doing ,One must know God an read his word Michael was always praying. That's what make him strong not many understood that. He knew God the one whome has given him strength. I pray he is in his hands now, God, may he have the peace that he so desire. May his spirit have rest now in you.  GOD IS GOOD HIS MERCY ENDURETH FOREVER.....  
   
I was working in Manned Operations Control Room 3, NASA Houston. Memories of a lifetime!
I agree with "Charla'- York, Pa." Most of us are aware of all the horrible crap going on in the world. But you can only take so much of that. At some point in life, you got to live, have fun, escape. To say MJ was "just a performer" down-plays how important the arts and talent is. We celebrate talent because it's rare, not everyone can sing, paint, play music, etc. MJ had loads of talent. I also don't think he was as "weird" as the media made him out to be. He worked and performed since he was a small child. That has to have an affect on a person, but that doesn't mean he was weird. I don't believe he was a child molester either. If your kid was molested by someone, would you settle for a large sum of money or would you see that justice was served?
in response to H .S. MTL ,QUE:  When Michael was going thru his trial the ONLY supporters were his FANS and Family
Micheal Jackson radiated a state of pure bliss and enchantment through his music, he touched and lifted our souls, he was captivatingly magnetizing, no human has managed to imitate his dances with such impeccable fluidity and his voice indescribably soft and soothing to listen to. A true master peice of an artist created by God which only comes as often as a certain commet in the sky...a very rare species of such a human being.  my favorite song was "will you be there".  WHICH OTHER ARTIST HAS EXECUTED SUCH MUSIC?


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